Ok as some want to know about me, others just want to know what I am going to do to them, I will start with about Me... I am a happy divorced man, (If you knew my ex wife you would know why) I have my 3 children living with me, who I have brought up on my own for over 10 years.... They are now youngest 17 oldest 21... Eldest has ASD.... I work in the education sector as a facilities assistant so money is crap.... I am also on call a lot so that why I normally ask you to come here unless fairly local to Bicester.... My bedroom has a lock on it so that we can enjoy ourselves without being disturbed ..... I like to play pool and I smoke i drink but not excessive a few pints when I go out and only when I am out .... I do smoke more than 20 a day.. I like to walk as I do around 7+ miles a day at work .... I am looking for a serious relationship but am happy with A FWB I am not one for a one night then fuck off after a shag last time I had a one night stand she kept me for 5 years lol .... I enjoy edging my partners, I am into anal and spanking and hair pulling I like to be deepthroated and tie my partner to the bed I want to try many more things including having a submissive .... I don\'t like causing lots of pain so spanking is the limit I wont use a whip as I would feel guilty after.... I am a person who is stubborn but also able to listen I am kind and respectful .